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How to be a social maverik -Tips...!!!
Is that person on the corner of the room making friends whomever he meets, Surprised? They befriend everyone and anyone and have friends
from all walks of life. What makes that so special that everyone wants to be a friend with him?
How does he solve the mystery of befriending, each and every one he meets? Traits that are required for being a
guru in making friends are many. Of the many, some important ones have been listed below, follow them and develop them for our benefit. I am sure it will also help you
make yourself as a better individual.
a. Proper eye contact is a must
Making a sound and steady eye connection talks about thousand things and is one of the vital trail
to have as an individual. Remember to make good eye contact; solely because making steady eye contact helps
you perceived to be on the positive note. Do not drop down your eye contact, let the other person take the call of letting the
connection down. Why I am stressing on this trait becuase if you have master this art
then you be perceived to be as a very friendly and powerful individual. That helps a lot. This trait is probably the most important character of a person of the lot we are going to discuss going on.
b. Confidence is the key
Feeling low on confidence?
If yes, then start working on enhancing your confidence. Make sure you work on
you mind and body which inturn are the boosters of your confidence. Head to the gym, join a club etc in order to make your mind and body be in tandem and in peace.
c. Humor helps in a big way Let
it flow in your blood.
Let people recongnize as you the one with cheering up skills. Mould yourself to be a person who is considered to be in control of
your life and all its situations. Be the favorite of the crowd
with your humor. That is when you start making friends from all walks of life.
d. Be a mavrick in starting a conversation
Be the first one to start the conversation. All I am saying here is do not wait for people to approach, if
you think that girl you see is gorgeous and you want to befriend her, go ahead ping her. Almost any topic should be fine. If you
see that waiter, tell him that his clothes are really good and he looks awesome today.
e. Start with a small conversation. It will eventually grow
Small is sweet, hence start the conversation through a small talk. For example, if you are in a cab, ask the driver what his name is and where he is from. That should
be enough to start with.
f. Listen to whatever the other one has to say..
You would have heard this from many. You all know about this.
The
best out come of listening properly is that you will be able to identify topics in which the other person is interested in. All I am saying is Listening helps a ton. !! Listening
also helps a great deal in finding the common areas of interest and you will be able to aptly digress the conversation to topics you are comfortable in. Subsequently, you can invite her to places
where you both can manage and boost your common areas of interests - Galleries, Base ball games etc For example, if the other person is interested in arts and
paintings, invite her to an art gallery or museum.
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